Enhancing intimacy through education on sexual desire, kink, safety, and effective communication.
Offering
consultations
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Do you want to create your own dungeon space? Use my expertise to help you with your vision! Consider me your “dungeon interior decorator”! I can help share some insight to your plans so that you maximize your space for play!
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Need help in planning your BDSM-themed party or event? Or maybe just need to spice up the hotel room for an anniversary your partner will never forget! Let me use my creativity and expertise to fashion an evening your guests or partner won’t soon forget!
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$250/hour
coaching
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New to the kink world? Let me guide and coach you in exploring all the excitement this lifestyle has to offer in a safe, sane, consensual environment. Obtaining consent and Negotiating a Scene are crucial topics covered. You can book personal coaching or attend one of our BDSM 101 workshop discussions.
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Ready to practice actually wielding a flogger or want to just experience the impact? Feel the soft leather and the coolness of the chains, either as a top or bottom! Coached sessions allow you to practice safely by building confidence, after some basic instruction. Prerequisite: BDSM 101
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$250/hour during daytime hours 10am-6pm. After-hours and weekends are $300/hour.
dungeon rental
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This private dungeon space is available for rent for your private play. Bring your partner to their peak, edge, and then push their boundaries, while quietly monitored for safety. Choose 1 of 5 themed rooms. Bring your own toys, please. Membership is required.
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You can rent dungeon space for an exclusive and unique themed party at The Domicile, with access to all five dungeon rooms as well as the kitchen. Catering is offered or you can bring your own goodies. Moderators will be mingling on-site for safety. Master-Tier Membership is required. Guests are encouraged to bring their own toy bags.
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Attention photographers and “selfie studio” queens! The Domicile dungeon can be rented for your photography event! You’ll not find another venue as adequately equipped for an exciting boudoir photoshoot! Book one session, or book the entire day full of sessions! Catering can be provided upon request.
Join the Community
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Purgatory Playmate Gift Certificates are now AVAILABLE! Give the gift that will keep her guessing, as well as on the edge of her seat!
Dominant? Or Submissive? Or maybe BOTH! Why limit your excitement?!
Whether you’re a professional photographer or amateur selfie creator, Purgatory Playmate can help you create the edgy content you crave!
Goddess Gifts Day! Love Me, Worship Me, Spoil the F&%k outta me!
Plans underway for “Be My Bloody Valentine” Party, 2026! It’s looking like it will be our biggest party yet!
Celebrate spooky season this Halloween with Purgatory Playmate!
Come and get your kinky freak on at our Midnight Massochism Party 2025!
Dark angels await you at The Domicile! What are you waiting for?
Purgatory Playmate reminds you to be careful when playing with fire!
Membership Info coming soon!
Purgatory Playmate Selfie Sundays! Dungeon fun with ring lights and selfie stands! Bring your sexy fetish wear and your camera phones!!
Selfie Sundays at The Domicile with Purgatory Playmate are a THING!
Purgatory Playmate…a members-only kink community and dungeon play space!
Purgatory Playmate at The Domicile debut! Feel beautiful, feel dangerous, …just FEEL all the FEELS!
Purgatory Playmate thanks you for an astounding first year 2024!
September 2025 Equinox of Eros Party
Snowed in? Purgatory Playmate reminds you to Play Safe!
A kinkster’s playground and a devil’s delight! Are you curious?
Krampusnächt comes but once a year! Are you on the Naughty List?
Cheeky Domme Joke of the day…
One of my many costumes over Halloween 2025!
Here’s your 100% creep factor! Happy Halloween 2025!
Midnight Massochism 2025 was an absolute SCREAM! IYKYK!
Amazing time at a friend’s Halloween celebration! Scary, silly, and sexy!
Cute earrings…think I’ll wear them to a vanilla outing!
Check out Charlotte’s premier members-only dungeon space!
Check out Charlotte’s premier members-only dungeon space!
Purgatory Playmate…a members-only kink community and dungeon play space! Coming soon to Charlotte!
Purgatory Playmate…a members-only kink community and dungeon play space!
Purgatory Playmate Open House at The Domicile was a HUGE success! I can’t wait to share!
The Domicile with Purgatory Playmate is OPEN for business!
Purgatory Playmate making a comeback after some enhancements at The Domicile! Stay tuned!
Be My Bloody Valentine Party coming up February 2026!